The self lost, the self adjusted: Forming a new identity in bereavement memoirs by American women
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2015
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Adam Mickiewicz University
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Most Western cultures place a great value on autonomy. American society in particular has always
stressed the need to succeed via self-reliance, a characteristic which, in recent decades, has additionally
manifested itself in an increasing inclination for self-examination reflected in the deluge of
autobiographical writing, especially memoirs. This analysis focuses on memoirs of spousal loss, a
specific subgenre of life writing in which, due to the loss of a loved one, the narrating self realizes
how unstable a sense of autonomy is. In their bereavement narratives, Joan Didion, Anne Roiphe,
and Joyce Carol Oates admit that after losing a life partner their world crumbled and so did their
sense of self. The article examines the following aspects of the grieving self: 1. how grief tests one’s
self-sufficiency; 2. how various grief reactions contribute to self-disintegration; 3. the widow as a
new and undesirable identity; and 4. writing as a way of regaining one’s sense of self.
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self, loss, widow, bereavement, memoir, independence, grief, writing, narrative, self-pity
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Studia Anglica Posnaniensia, vol. 50.2-3 (2015), pp. 155-174
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0081-6272